iS iT pOssiBLe tO bE 1Oo% hOnEst iN rElaTionShiPs...????
what is the meaning of honest????
It's meaning telling the truth,not lying to people or stealing.
So now,possible or not to become honest, I think we must look at the situation,and the person either suitable or not to be honest.
Firstly,the close person like our beloved parents and siblings espeacially, we should be honest to them 100% because they are our family.Most of our life with them.It is because the parents are the person that take care from baby until we become adult and siblings that grow up together and surely understanding each other.So,what ever that we want to do or had done,we must tell to them honestly but if there are somethings that privacies we should not tell to them because it is personal possessions.they would be understand and respect whatever we do.In addition,for husband and wife,it's better if they honest for each other because they will be together for whole life i/Allah..So,if they can practice to be honest its easy to they settle the problem and to share anything.Consequently,the trust and confident would be improve.Sharing is caring right...!!!!
However,its different with the couple that not realy about the relationship and not cornfirm will be their future husband or wife.They not need to be hundred percent honest because they not confirm.May be should be honest about 60% only and spend it 40% for ownself because we dont now whatever will be happen either good or bad.Besides,we also cannot be honest 100% also to our friend because nowadays there are many person that we cannot read their heart.Althought in front us they become good but we did not know what happen at the back.If we share the secret maybe she/he will be story to the others right??someone will be annoying you or the friend will backstep you.what we should do is friends with all person that u want but not to be honest to them.Not to be honest not meaning that we do bad to the friend but we must be always careful to everyone.It same between workers and employer or student to the teacher or lecture or any others,we should be honest to all person but not 100%.we should be careful to whatever we do.
As the conclusion,the honest is always important and it must be base on the situation,place and the person..If you are trust and confident,just go on..Trust to yourself.....(^^,)
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